Photos and Video Part of the Fantasy
No Shortage of Ass in Latin America
Photos and video are something that you have to negotiate up front, and its part of the excitement and fantasy of the pay for play experience in Latin America. Many of the girls will ask for more money or want to decide which photos to publish. I have found that many do not mind being nude, and in fact enjoy what turns out to be a model or photo shoot fantasy.
Of course many of the girls I have photographed over the years have benefited from the attention and publicity to improve their business.
Unfortunately one of the things that bothers me the most is when a future boyfriend comes along and asks me to take down the photos. The photos take on a entire life of their own, and even if I take down a photo or remove an entire video for just one photo there are plenty of other websites and people who are sharing the same images.
In the end the "boyfriends" have just go to respect that their chica has a past that is not all that easy to erase and get over it. We are all here to have fun, and if I don't mind being in front of the camera they shouldn't as well.
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Renowned traveler and conessuir of Latin American ladies, Cubadave is a resident of South Beach on Key West, Florida. He is famous for many trips and sports activities in Cuba. Dave is a frequent traveler to the Caribbean and Central America.Author's Blog
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Well said. Some guys need lookers others need great sex. And still others need someone to hold and talk too.
Some men think they need to spend $100.00 and then there are those of us who know we are being charged more then the Ticos when we fork over $37.50.
There have been a lot of changes over the past 7 years but CR is the only place I know of where the price of a hummer keps going down.
Pura Vida
I find it very amusing that some of these club house members don't "Get It" the girls that have there photo posted are willing to perform sex for a fee, that;s what they do - they don't like you they dont care about you they don't think you are nice,handsome, strong or what they tell you- they want your money-you are a client nothing more, stop trying to be a hero stop defending them, having sex with a tica is nothing more than a business transaction. I love it when these 60 old clubhouse members that refer to these ticas as their "Girlfriends" wake up once you walk out the door another client walks in - have fun pay what you think is fare then move over for the next guy, take a photo show it to your clubhouse Buddie give him some insight on what to expect, pass your experience on that's what all these sites are all about. Let the Tica take your money and go have a good time with her Tico boyfriend. Save the name calling and finger pointing for your wife. The Costa Rican experience is just a fantasy. Don't be a fool.
Well Said Dave!
Pura Vida Dave
I could not have said it better myself. We are only "money". I have met one chica in 10 years that I "kind of" think cares a little....that to will probably change.
It's all about money !!!
Looking for love in all the wrong places. Come on, do you really want another wife? If you do get one they just turn into another wife like you had before. Yeah I like to think she loves me, and I fall in love all the time. But I get on that plane and come home, or I kick them out after they get too comfortable and don't earn their money. Chicas last me 2 trips. So then where are you, same place you started at, and going to be. Don't even e-mail em, because they're gonna ask you for money. And if you're looking for $20 pussy, why would you want to western union them 1 or 2 hundred dollars, for what, to say you have a gf in CR? I've sat with chicas in CR while they talked to their "boyfriend" in the States, she told me to be quiet. And that's on the real boys. RRS
Amen RRS. Been ther done that. Its a hoot. The phone rings and all of a sudden you have to be as quite as a .. Well the girls dont THINK you understand any Spanish and I lie there and just enjoy the lesson and after; every time they ask for money for the sick child, momma, papa, sister, rent or herself Isay;
Lo Siento No Mas Plata.....Solo 20 Mil
Just to go in line with what is being said here, two weeks a go, I was sitting on the couch in the Del Rey and there was an attractive tica sitting with an older american guy and her phone rang. She looked at the guy sitting next to her and motioned for him to be quiet. She spoke very good english, I could here her tell this person on the phone that she was visiting a friend and she needed money and she needed this person on the phone to send her some money via western union. This was a phone call that lasted about 15 minutes. The whole time the american sitting next to her was kissing this girl on the shoulders and cheeks and in general laughing at the guy on the other end of this girls phone line. I could go on, but the point is, this poor guy on the other end of the phone agreed to send some money, while this guy is laughing at him along with her. She went on to tell this guy that she has 3 american men that send her money on a regular basis and laughed about it!!!! They then agreed on a price and left for the room.
I can't agree more with Dave, man enjoy yourselves, this is a fantasy, young beautiful latin girls....Do you think they REALLY like us older american guy's??Or do you think it's the green in your pocket? Come on enjoy these young beauties and then get back to reality or they will suck you dry in more ways than one. And by the way, they really do like the young in shape latin guys, that is what turns them on....Just trying to help...Enjoy!
I have visited San Jose many times and if you think you can turn a ho into a house wife you are fooling yourself. Many times I have tried to meet a lady friend there. All Ive ever met were someone who wanted me to send them dineros when I got back to the states. My advice is to love them and show them a good time while youre on vacation but once you reach the airport snap out of the euphoria and come back to reality. The ticas are working girls trying to provide for their families. Most of them already have boyfriends. If you want a lady friend in Costa Rica move there and maybe you can find someone in a small town. I know several ladies in San Jose but I cant say I have any friends there.
l completely agree.lt would be similar to someone going to nevada and finding a wife in a whore house there.Similar to the states you do or can get regular college girls who are not hookers in Costa Rica, but excellent chance you wont find them in whore houses.60% divorce rate here in the states kind of insinuates even in the most minute level that prostitution is possibly just as common here as in Costa Rica.Just open up the yellow pages in almost any little city in the states and you will find escort services.l rather do it cheaper in Costa Rica where its legal and you cant be prosecuted for it.
I remember the old days when cubadave had girls that liked him for himself. I don't understand what made dave so cynical. My novia and I still like dave cynical or not.
I don't think Dave is cynical. He commented on the reality of relationships with working girls and gringos. Always remember, these are Putas and we are clients. Nothing more, nothing less. There is always an exception but they are few and far between. They are not having a good time. They may put on an act....but it's just that...an act.
4F (Find them, Feel them, Fu__ them, Forget them) Did I get if right?
I enjoy the reponse - I would like to say I'm not cynical, I'm just honest with myself- I still like Karen , Vanessa, Yoselin, Mariam,Veronica,Allison, there still my girlfriends for an hour and I come every month just to spend money on them, I enjoy the time with them very much, I look forward to each trip but I also relieze that when I'.m not with them they are with someone else, thats the way it works why fool yourself - take your turn and have fun - remember in Costa Rica you don't have a girlfriend you have a rotation.
Well, things aren't as cut and dry as Dave puts it in the above post. A Tica that you have some good chemistry with is a good thing. Remember, Dave told us he has a favorite girlfriend he visits every day for and hour when he is in CR. He likes certain things about her and so on. Even in strictly business relationships there are friends and enemys, people you do more business with because of the positive nature of your dealings together. If you find a Tica who responds well to you, and vice-versa, then that is much better than one who doesn't. That is the definition of a girlfriend in CR. Just don't think it's more than that.
Its said that business and emotion should not be mixed....
Then why mix our emotion with their business ?!?! Leave it as it is.... no more no less
BANGKOK RULES:
1. Never barfine a girl with wet hair
2. You never lose your girl, you just lose your turn
3. No matter how beautiful she is, someone is tired of fucking her